A new Australian study finds that most children encounter grooming-related messages online — and often don't even realise it.
Imagine a stranger asking a twelve-year-old about their hobbies, their friendships, their daily routine. Sounds normal enough, doesn't it? That is precisely the problem. A study published in the journal *Child Abuse & Neglect* has found that nearly two-thirds of Australian children surveyed received at least one form of grooming-related communication from an unknown person online in the past year.
The research, led by Dr. Katie Logos at Adelaide University and conducted with partners including Michigan State University and the Australian Institute of Criminology, surveyed around 300 children between the ages of 10 and 17. The most frequently reported experiences were not shocking messages in the night. They were mundane: a stranger discussing shared interests, asking personal questions, or inquiring about a child's relationships and online habits.
These trust-building behaviours — what researchers call "risk-assessment communication" — are designed to feel ordinary. Around one in five children were also asked by someone they only knew online to send photos or videos of themselves, or to meet in person. Yet many children described feeling indifferent about such exchanges, and frequently assumed they were simply talking to another young person. That assumption, researchers note, is exactly what an adult posing as a child would want.